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Tread lightly. We work in a man’s world and she has had to adapt accordingly. You remember the tom-boy you loved as a kid?  We spend every day proving how tough, how competent, how determined, how capable and how in control we can be. – You’ve heard the terms, Type A, Controlling and OCD?  We’re one big tri-pack. Should you at any point make an attempt to tell her “this is how it’s going to be” – peace be with you. However, If you do fit any of the above criteria, they you’ve found the right gal.  The girl who will answer your text, call or IM the moment you send it? You’re gonna need an iron stomach – If you want to be the rock that she can lean on, you’ll have to be able to listen to the details of her calls as she mentally re-lives those moments, playing them back, checking herself, questioning herself, critiquing herself. Don’t interject, don’t try to fix anything, just listen – and don’t vomit. Don’t try to change her -  We often hear men talk about women trying to change them. Well, this is a big issue with the female first responder. Men are very attracted to the strong, confident, independent women of this field, until they get deeper into the relationship.